Allan James LaRue
June 18, 1941-July 30, 2009
June 18, 1941-July 30, 2009
My dad...The greatest grandpa ever!!!
Today I am sad. At 12:00 noon my hero, the man I have looked up to, respected and who has taught me more about being a good person than anyone, passed away from this life. My dad, Allan James LaRue had fought for too long the battle of cancer. But I know that he is in a good place with those he loves. I also believe that he received a warm hero's welcome upon arrival. My dad was always a gentle giant to me. He never said an unkind word or spoke ill of anyone. He was a man of integrity and honesty. He was a provider both spiritually and physically. He had a sense of humor that was so quarky you had to laugh at him not always with him. My dad served anyone and everyone, all of the time. He taught me to respect my mom and I have gained more respect for my mom over the last couple of months than I have in a lifetime! She is amazing!!! They shared a love for one another that was truly unique. My dad would do anything for my mom and did just that. I never remember them argueing, fighting or raising their voices at each other, they truly loved and respected each other all 47 years together. One thing that I could always count on with my dad was each and every night that I returned home from a date as a teenager my dad would be standing up, in front of the TV (so he wouldn't fall asleep) waiting for me. Just so I would know that he was there if I ever wanted to talk...about anything. There was never a doubt in my mind how much he loved me and my four sisters.
My kids have been blessed to have really great memories of my dad. My parents were able to travel with us on our vacations. We loved having grandma and grandpa along. We have some wonderful memories of these trips that we will always cherish.
What a great example to my kids that Grandpa and Grandma were able to serve a mission to Rochester, NY 2007.We have been able to have some very sweet, tender, spiritual moments this last week, ones that I will be forever grateful for and will never forget. I am so blessed to have wonderful friends and family who have called, visited, dropped by flowers, food and cards. Thank you!
The Funeral and buriel plans are for
Tuesday, August 4th in Pleasant Grove.
You can read his obituary online at http://www.olpinmortuary.com
16 comments:
oh my stars what a tremendous loss......Cassie I am so very sorry to read this....I have had you on my mind all day.....you are all in my prayers....he was just the BEST! {{{{{HUGS}}}}}
LOVE YA!!! I will be thinking about you. I been there so hang in there you can do it.
I am so sad and hope you guys are doing ok. What a nice blog about your dad. Take care. I am going to come next week. I so glad you can be there for your mom. She is going to need you.
What a lovely tribute. So sorry for your loss.
I'm sorry to hear this Cassie. You have posted a great tribute to your father and it makes me wish I would have known him. He sounds perfect! Take care of yourself and your mom. ♥ Kathy
I heard from Dianne and when I heard I instantly thought about you and wondered how you were. Cassie, always remember that our Heavenly Father loves you. He is right beside you all the time. He knows the saddness that you are feeling too. The weeks, months and years ahead will be different, if not weird at times. The void is real and the loneliness is deep. Know that your Dad is happy and not in anymore pain. You are an eternal family and you will see your Dad again. Please give your mother my love.
Sob! That made me cry just reading what you wrote. What a great dad you have.
We love you. Sorry. You have wonderful parents. I cried reading your sweet memories of your Dad.
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Sorry to hear the news. What a beautiful post and tribute to your Dad. He is a great man.
Cassie, what a nice tribute to your father. He sounds like he lived an amazing life full of love and incredible people surrounding him. I hope you guys can continue to remember all the fun memories about him to help ease the pain of losing him for now. Love you.
what a wonderful tribute to your Dad. You can tell you had a wonderful relationship with him! I love you and I'm here if you ever need ANYTHING.
Cassie thanks for leaving me a comment I added you to my blog. I am SOOOO sorry about your dad. Our thoughts and prayers are with you guys. We love ya!
What a wonderful tribute to your dad. I'm so sorry for your loss; he was such a good man.
What great memories you all will have of him. We are so sorry and sad for you. We love you!
Dear Cassie,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family today as you celebrate the life of your beloved father. I cannot attend the services, but I owe you a big hug. Let me know if I can help with anything in the coming days, weeks, and months. Love, Sister Hallen
I am so sorry for your loss. What a hard battle it is to fight that blasted cancer-at least we have the wonderful knowledge to know that he is now happy, healthy and with those he loves. Im so sorry.
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